PickupAsia helps Gyopos!

I was talking with RedpoleQ about Korean culture and how the Game is different for:
- Koreans

- Foreigners

- Foreign Koreans

Granted, the people and the locations are the same, but the social circumstances are different.  That’s why I’m proud to say that at Pickup Asia, we are and have helped Gyopos get better relationships and results within those relationships in Korea.

There is also something interesting that happened, which I will be posting about in the near future when it all clears up.

BlueM

Korean Fetish Party

Have you ever been surprised by someone? Like maybe you found out that your best friend that you met in a library and who studies regularly, (and you’ve never caught him doing anything else), starts masturbating for the first time.

Sure, the more immature of us would giggle and scoff about how our friend masturbates, and maybe even put him to shame for it. But if that person were really your friend, and you were really his, you would congratulate him, and tell him to enjoy it as one of life’s pleasures!

So what’s my point with this story?

Well, when I went to my first Korean fetish party, it felt like finding out that a great friend has taken the courage to discover his sexuality and explore it (NOT that I would want to be there with him!)

You see, a great pleasure I take is in being able o progress the women I’m with, sexually.

After taking the Sexual Mastery Seminar (SMS) I learned both how and why you want to take women from where they are sexually, and show them new ways that they can enjoy sex. That can mean having sex with them with their clothes on, or fucking them in the wild, or actually getting them to cum for the first time, or playing with new toys such as anal plugs or vibrators. This definitely makes them remember you in a great way, and you will greatly improve their lives for the better, which is what this is all about.

So anyway,
the fetish party itself was rather tame. The performers were wearing clothes, and the scenes were limited to basic spanking, whipping, smothering, and trampling.

What was cool is that they brought in members from the audience and encouraged them to just let their sexual side out, which is definitely what people in Korea, if not the world, needs.

I had the chance to participate actually, and I kept a little memento from one of the artists, which was a pair of panties (something to put on my wall ). 

All in all, I was very proud to see that Koreans were exploring their sexual side and  starting to break through their rigid culture in order to live better, and more balanced lives.

BlueM

Threesome Game on Cliff’s List!

Hey everyone,

I wanted to share that ‘PickupAsia’, the company I’m with has been published on Cliff’s List.

The article introduces you to Threesome Game, and the frames you can take to make them happen for you.

Without further ado, here it is:

KID44 & PANTERA (http://www.cliffslist.com/):
LIGHTNING SINGLE NIGHT LAY 3-SOME GAME LAY REPORT – BUTLERS PARTY IN
SHIBUYA, TOKYO

Gentlemen,

Milady Pantera and I bid you “Welcome !”

This is the first in a series of articles regarding the event currently
being described by some in the Japan PU community as “folklore,”
“myth,” or “legend.”

But the fact is, it really happened.

Really.

Exactly as I’m writing it here.

And we’re giving it ALL up to you, starting with:

1. The LR – What actually happened that night at Butlers (you’re reading
it now.)

In the near future, we’ll be releasing the deep details of that event,
including:

2. How Pantera and I actually DID it (the step-by-step nuts and bolts of
what we call the Lightning Game.)

3. The steps you need to take to do it for yourselves.

4. Things you MUST be able to do before you can run Bi-Wing Game.

5. How to develop your skill set to the point where you can successfully run
Bi-Wing Game.

Let’s get to it …

… Butlers. Enjoy the ride. We know you’re gonna like it.

BUTLERS IN SHIBUYA

We’d heard stories of Butlers Cafe Party from any number of PickUp Asia
alumni, but had never had the time to attend one. The concept seemed amusing
enough: Japanese girls paying a premium to attend a party hosted by foreign
guys dressed up as butlers, while other foreign guys paid a lower price to
get in the door and attempt to pick up the girls. Hilarious.

Prior to the most recent Sexual Mastery Seminar in Tokyo, a student had told
me a Butlers Party was being held on the last night of our seminar and
encouraged me to check it out. I looked up the information, and once the SMS
had begun, asked the participants if they had any intention of attending the
party on Sunday. Surprisingly, all of them knew it was happening, so we
agreed to consider going after the seminar.

So Sunday evening rolls around and the students and I decided to go to the
party. Of course, Pantera, my Wing Lady, co-instructor and demonstration
assistant for the SMS, was MORE than up for the party. She LOVES having the
chance to meet new, sexy girls, and was looking forward to continuing the
streak we had started the night before when we pulled a lovely barista in
the Roppongi Starbucks right in the middle of the SMS, much to the surprise
and delight of the students. (That adventure had Pantera taking said lovely
to the Italian restaurant next to our place, wining and chatting with her
while waiting for me to finish the seminar. I then joined them for another
glass of red before all three of us moved the party to our room for some
very, very hot and wet bodily fluid exchanges. But that’s a LR for another
time.)

THE PARTY

So, off we go to Butlers in Shibuya. We decided to leave Pantera’s collar
and leash at home, figuring there was no need to scare any “civilians”
this time around: this isn’t our favorite stomping ground (Osaka) where
we’re quite well-known for our SNL 3-some activities in the Happening Bar
/ Couple’s Club / Fetish-BDSM scene … most involving rope, bondage,
female ejaculation, anal orgasms, and a smack of S&M. We figured that for
our first “vanilla” party in Tokyo we’d be better off starting out
soft. You can always go hard next time.

Upon arriving, Pantera and I notice Bambi IMMEDIATELY. Incredibly busty for
a Japanese girl, with a smile on her face but a bored look in her eyes. I
opened her with, “Hey ! Having fun ? Now,” and reached out to shake her
hand. “This is Pantera.” gesturing towards my lady. Pantera moved in to
smile and softly touched the girl’s cheek with the back of her hand.
Instant BT spike ! A bit of brief chit-chat, names exchanged before the
young lady says, “I need to use the bathroom.” “Fine. We’ll talk
with you again later” and we moved off. We’re good and we know it. Time
to roll on.

Butlers is a strange venue. Its layout does not allow for any traffic flow,
and seems deliberately designed to PREVENT rather than facilitate
interactions. The only feasible lock-in location that had any power was
directly next to the register / waiter’s station (makes sense when you
think about it.) I noted that for future reference.

A quick scan of the room made it clear that the Bambi was the ONLY girl even
remotely matching our qualifications, so … on to socializing a bit. In
addition to our SMS participants, I noticed one other member of the PickUp
Asia Travelling Medicine Show: Placebo. He’s talking to a young lady who
obviously interests him, so … “Hey Placebo. How are you tonight ?”
Shake hands. Turn to Pantera, “Say hello to Placebo.” She smiles and
kisses him on the cheek. Young lady with Placebo goes PING ! BT spike. I
look at her and say, “Placebo is a cool guy. You are a lucky girl.”
Smile. Grab Placebo’s shoulder. “Have a good time.” Out. Work done
with her for now.

We walk the room, and as Pantera and I make the rounds the girls are ALL
excited and happy to talk with us. “Finally, some cool people to chat
with. I hope they like ME !” We circle around, always keeping an eye on
Bambi. She’s talking to some tall foreigner who, although holding her
interest, either has no idea where to go with the interaction or simply
isn’t into her, so when she eventually bails on him, Pantera swoops in. I
hold back, and move to lock in against the wall near the register area. My
job is done for now. Time to chill and watch “The Pantera Show.”

My lady slides in with her version of the Lightning Game: her kino is swift
and hits all the right switches, her gaze and subcoms all aglow. She’s
pulling Bambi into her reality. The DHVs come next: gets Bambi laughing
while her eyes start sparkling. Surely and smoothly, Pantera anchors those
feelings to the touch of her hand on Bambi’s, and directs Bambi to look at
me. She gets my easy smile. I reach out to touch Bambi’s hand, projecting
nerve force through my touch into her entire being. I can feel it take root.
Mission accomplished. I release her hand and let Pantera finish her story.
Bambi lets us know she plans to get home around midnight. Timeline logistics
established. The personal cards come out. Pantera explains the meaning of
our card … the symbolism, the design, the magic and mystery, then talks
about the fur business we’re developing throughout Asia, and how Bambi
MUST come to our hotel and see all the exotic furs. Bambi is glowing. It’s
so on, and I’m up … it’s my turn.

I gently spin Bambi around, take the lead and swing into my Game. Kino
continues as Pantera pings off of Bambi like fairy dust. I’m in my Rings
Routine. Bambi is adventurous, open-minded and passionate. I have her
driving headlong into the frames I’ve set for her. She fights for the
frames, holds them near and dear. She qualifies, and she knows she
qualifies. She and my sister have so much in common and it makes her smile.
I playfully spank her. She spikes again. The frames are set and it’s time
to move. Pantera leans into her. We’re all cool people. Cool people
getting hungry. And the food at Butlers is not to our liking. So cool people
gotta do what cool people gotta do: go find a cool restaurant and eat. The
girls get their coats. I hang back. Time to leave – with a hot girl on each
arm.

THE TAXI RIDE

Three in the back seat, Bambi in the middle. Incidental kino in play. Smiles
and laughter all abound. Conversation turns to what we wanted to be when we
were 7 years old, what we do now, and how the thread connects. Pantera
wanted to be a Maiko and now is one of Japan’s leading fashion designers,
Bambi a librarian who now organizes and protects data for huge companies,
Kid44 the magician who now teaches sex and pick up. Lots of laughs and
insights into our true natures. Horoscopes come out with Pantera and I as
Scorpios and Bambi the Virgo. “Interesting. You’re a down-to-earth woman
who does what she says, makes her own decisions carefully, and doesn’t
really care what other people think. We’ll all get along great.” Hands
are all being held, smiles and reverse kino are in abundance. It takes us a
little more than 5 minutes to get to our place. But first, some food at the
restaurant next door.

THE RESTAURANT

The restaurant seats us at a table long enough for all of us to sit next to
each other. We put Bambi in the middle with Pantera on her right, me on her
left. We’re all laughing and holding hands. Food and wine are ordered and
served. Pantera entertains with stories of her life and successes. Bambi is
impressed. “But why are you with Kid44 ? You are so successful and
independent, what is his role in your life ?” she asks. “He is my
Master. He made me what I am, makes me what I will become,” Pantera
answers. She reaches across Bambi to take my hand. She kisses it gently and
says, “Thank-you, my Master.” I smile. I offer my hand to Bambi’s
lips. She looks me in the eyes and gently kisses my hand. “Thank-you, my
Master.” I smile at her and gently stroke her face. I reach around and
pull her hair. “Good girl. You are my good girls. And you, Pantera, are my
Light.” I level my gaze at Pantera. She holds it for a second before
looking down and then to Bambi. Bambi looks at me steadily before looking
down and then to Pantera. They both giggle and reach for each other’s
hands.

Once the food arrives, we share all the food. I feed the girls from my fork,
having them kiss me occasionally. Bambi is stroking my hand sensually as she
talks to Pantera. Pantera regales us with funny stories of her
not-being-quite-up-to-speed on the whole culinary / cooking / domestic thing
as Bambi talks about her training as a chef. I listen, smile, and laugh. The
girls go to the bathroom together, twice, hand in hand.

Dinner over, it’s time to go to and “see the furs.” Time in the
restaurant: about 45 minutes.

THE APARTMENT

Again, upon leaving the restaurant I have a girl on each arm, my hands free.
In the elevator up to the room, a quick kiss on the lips to Pantera, and
another on Bambi’s lips. I instruct Pantera, “Kiss Bambi.” Pantera
moves close to Bambi and kisses her full on the lips, looks back to me,
lowers her eyes and steps back. “Good girl” I coo. The elevator arrives
at our floor.

Once in the room, Pantera wastes no time showing Bambi the many beautiful
furs we are marketing in Asia. Bambi is truly amazed. I take the girls’
coats and lower the room lights. They preen and parade in front of the
mirrors, switching and stacking the furs. Pantera eggs me on to remove my
shirt and wear one of the fur scarves on my bare chest, rock-star style. I
do. The girls ooh and aah. I pull Bambi into me and start making out with
her. She moves fully into the kiss. Immediately, I pull her hand to the
front of my pants and she grabs for my junk. Pantera moves swiftly to her
knees and undoes my belt and opens my pants. Bambi rolls out the bishop and
starts stroking it. Pantera gives her a few moments to enjoy that before she
starts licking her favorite spots, her eyes locked on mine the entire time.
I push Bambi gently away from me a bit as I simultaneously lift her sweater
up and undo her bra. The sweater and bra come off a second later, and as
Bambi bends over to take me in her mouth, she simultaneously removes her
skirt, stockings and panties in one smooth move.

I now have one naked Bambi and a half-dressed Pantera giving me a double
blowjob. I lean back against the wall and enjoy the moment before pulling my
stuff away from them and making them beg for more. They do as I pull it out
and put it in each girl’s mouth in turn. I push Bambi to the bed and
Pantera moves to her side, and full make out begins. I go for Bambi’s
belly and thighs with my tongue. She’s totally into Pantera, and as the
two of them continue to make out I remove the rest of my clothes and prepare
to mount Bambi.

“What do you want, baby ? Tell your Master what you want, Bambi. Do you
want my cock inside you ? Hmmm ? Tell me what you want, baby.” “FUCK ME,
my Master ! Fuck me deep and hard, Master. Please !” And I do.

From there, everything blends into a mosaic of intertwined body parts and
fluids exchanged. Highlights include: having the girls take turns riding me
while the other one sits on my face and they make-out (of course, from my
vantage point, I can’t exactly see it happening, but it all sounds and
feels really sexy;) using my left hand to squirt Pantera at the same time
that I’m making Bambi squirt with my right hand, while both girls are
looking into each other’s eyes as they scream in ecstasy; doing Bambi
doggy-style while she licks Pantera’s pussy; Bambi riding me while I’m
spanking her as she screams, “Yes, my Master, I’m CUMMING AGAIN !” and
cums for the umpteenth time; having two women collapsed in the bed, panting
in order to catch their breaths as I’m standing over them laughing, “You
guys give up ?” … and napping with women curled and cuddled up on each
side of me, with both of their hands on my still-hard junk.

We put a totally wiped-out Bambi in a cab to get her home at around 3 AM.
She’s now a member of our widening circle … we’re set to meet up with
her again when we return to Tokyo.

So …

Butlers Party: lousy layout, mediocre food, one lock-in location, 5 of the
Tribe: New Light, Phoenix, Truth n’ Klaw, Braveheart, Placebo (props on
the D2 close of the girl Pantera and I saw you with,) cool butlers, a bunch
of bored-looking girls, a whole lot of guys gaming their hearts out, one
couple throwing down the Lightning, and … one very, very happy Busty
Bambi.

Nice time.

We’ll be back.

Korean girls: Different than girls in general?

I’ve been talking to a few people from around the world, and we were debating about whether or not Korean women, are different than women from anywhere else around the world.

While were at it, are women all the same anywhere? Or are women in Asia different than women in the West and even so does it warrant having blogs, products, seminars and even ‘experts’ (such as myself)?  Or is it all a big spoof designed to sucker people more?

Well, yes and no.

Yes because women are women are women. They are attracted to the same things, the same way men around the world are attracted to the same things such as good looking women.

As Mystery says, women are attracted to three main qualities in a man:

- leader of men

- protector of loved ones

- pre-selected by other women
Now you go to any other country in the world and if you have those three traits, have good fashion and hold yourself well, and are able to express them, you will generate attraction with women from any other country in the world.

This kind of logic works as well with business customers from around the world.  People from around the world have the same wants and needs and companies that can target them will make money.
So, then there aren’t any differences between women around the world.  Anyone who comes from the West can come to the East and easily get a relationship!

Well no…
Sure, women and men are the same, but the cultures in which they are brought up in and part of aren’t.

Did you know that bright pink is a popular color on guys in Korea?  Did you know that couples in Korea wear the same clothes?  Did you know that in Korean culture, the men are allowed to have sex with women in Business clubs from work (because of stress) but the women have access to the men’s wallets?
The cultures are different.

It’s like saying that: English is English is English

Well, sure the language is the same, but if you go to the United States, or England, or Australia, or India, the “same language” is going to be different, with its different rules and slang and such.

To the extreme, it’s language, culture, lifestyle and different ways of establishing a relationship with an Asian girlfriend.

The same goes with Business as well. Sure, people are people but you need to understand the customs, culture, and even bodylanguage and calibrate for all of it.
With respect to Korean women, you can always learn about them here and get a step ahead of the game.

Please feel free to comment on this and add your thoughts.

BlueM

Korea and it’s low Self-Esteem

Hey guys,

Have you ever wondered that if your Country was a person, what kind of personality traits would it have, and what would stand out?

Well, I’ve been in Korea for 2-3 years now, and with the help of various discussions with good people, I’ve come to the conclusion that if Korea were to be a person, it would be an over-achiever with low self-esteem.
Now wait, if you’re Korean, before you get all angry or even downright Furious with a Capital “F” allow me to explain my theory and why I’ve come to this realization.

#1 Korea’s Low Self-Esteem

First off, let’s look at what is the past and behaviors of a person with ‘low self-esteem’.  According to Wikipedia, “Nathaniel Branden in 1969 briefly defined self-esteem as “…the experience of being competent to cope with the basic challenges of life and being worthy of happiness“”  In other words, a person is considered to have ‘low self-esteem’ if they are unable to cope with life and even when they do, they self-sabotage because to cope means to be happy, which to them, is something that is undeserving.

Although there are many causes, or combination of causes, that make people have ‘low self-esteem’ the main one that we’ll consider is the one that “low self-esteem is found among the victims of bullies”.
Now, let’s look at Korea.

Geographically, it’s located between two Asian superstars: China and Japan.

Historically, Korea has always been considered a territory to either China or Japan, or other superpowers. Some even argue that both Koreas are owned by Superpowers, either the United States or China.

Korea has always been bullied in most of its history to the point where if it were a person, it would be “suffering from ‘low self-esteem’”.  It’s native language was always replaced by another one, either Mandarin, or Japanese during the early 20th Century, or now, in is a VERY interesting case, American.

Korea has been bullied most of it’s life, that the self-esteem of its people has taken a huge toll.
‘So what does this have to do with having relationships with Korean women?’ you ask? Well, to understand the women you are dating, you also want to understand the Country and culture that they are from.

Overachieving Korea

If you look at South Korea’s economy history, it’s rapid progress has made it known as on of Asia’s quickest booms.  It’s economic achievements have made it an envy of the world, going from one of the poorest nations, to an economic powerhouse in Asia.  Today, it’s students study more than 14 hours/day and so much money is being traded in Seoul that it’s been mentioned as one of THE most expensive cities to live in!

So what’s the problem here?  Well, Korea and Koreans are spending so much time being productive, that they don’t have time to do anything else!  The average Korean salaryman spends more than 12 hours at the office, and only has 3 consecutive days of vacation a year!  Not to mention that it’s holiday ‘Chuseok’ is so stressful that it’s common knowledge to be one of the times where Korea has the highest number of suicides.

Not to mention, but if you’ve ever come to Seoul, or South Korea in general, you’ll see just how miserable people the old people look, and just how drunk people get to get rid of their stress…even at work!

Korea’s willingness to stay the same

Do you watch MTV? I do.

I love music, and I get really excited to learn languages if I like the songs in that language.
When I came to Korea for the first time, I was watching MTV and I noticed a constant pattern in their videos that was disturbing. In fact, one could even make a thesis of about how a culture can be represented in only a few music videos.

Anyways, if you ever watch Korean music on Youtube, you’ll notice how almost every time a person or people seem happy in the video, something out of the ordinary (like the mafia magically appearing, or a car coming out of nowhere, or some sickness that the person just got) will destroy the happiness, leaving the person or people in tears that will continue until the end of the song.

Now, if you see these kinds of videos re-occurring again, and again, AND you keep in mind that Korean drama is among the most-viewed in the world, you can conclude that Koreans are very good at self-sabotage, even on a subconscious level….just like a person with ‘low self-esteem’.

Korean Validation

Do you know what the best treat is for someone who has low self-esteem?  Compliments and validation.  In the Book 5 Love Languages for Singles by Gary Chatman, the author talks about how people have a favorite ‘love language’, ranging from words of approval, to gifts and even spending time.

So there you have it.  If Korea was a person, it would be one with low self-esteem, and this is something you want to keep in mind when living in Korea, because you will see traits of it everywhere in the people, vibe, and culture.

I love Korea, and I really wish that it prospers and gets out of it’s current inner belief that it isn’t worthy of success, but more importantly, that it can genuinely enjoy its success and truly appreciate the happiness that it’s people are longing for.

Until that day, we will have to accept what it is, and deal with it until then.

BlueM

PickupAsia on HongKong TV!

Hey guys,

just to let you know that I’ve been on a TV interview in HongKong and it will be airing soon. The “pick up” story will be aired on Sunday at 6:55 pm, April 6, and it will replayed on Tuesday at 1am and Saturday at 12:30 pm for those of you in Hong Kong.

You can also watch it on at http://www.tvb.com/ then click on MyTV then search for “The Pearl Report” on the search bar and look for the story “Speed Seduction.”

Enjoy!

BlueM

Limited to 소개팅 or blind dating?

Hey guys,

I’ve experienced something that I’ve only ever been in twice in my life: a Korean-style blind date.  I’ve never been a big fan of people ‘hooking me up’  with respect to women because of the social pressure that comes with it, and that for some reason, I get the feeling that it gives my “friends” the right to meddle into my dating life.  I don’t want either, but I chose to delve into it and I’m open to opinions.

Well, apparently in Korea it’s done because most people don’t have the time to go out and meet women (or rather won’t invest the time). So instead, they tell all their friends that they’re looking for someone to date.

This is understandable. I mean, we’re all too busy right?  If we’re not able to put in the work to find someone, why not just have our friends who, I reckon have more time than us, do our work and find someone for us instead?
Okay, yeah I am biased towards it. Maybe it’s because I haven’t seen the positive aspects to it as powerfully.  Maybe it’s because I don’t need it.  In any case, hopefully someone will be able to explain to me why and how it’s better than the good ol’ go-out-there-and-find-her deal.

I’ve noticed that, however, in terms of finding women to date, there are some positives and some negatives to this.

The positive stuff:

- you don’t have to go out and find a girl (or guy) who’ll want to go on a date with you.

- you’re already in the ‘warm market’, so you won’t be rejected. In fact, your friends have probably built you up so that you’re seen in a very good light.

- you’re probably meeting a girl who is looking to meet a guy as well.

- your friends who know you really well, hook you up with someone who they feel would be a good match, and probably is.
So far, it sounds like a good deal. I mean, there you are going about your life, getting dates left and right from your social circle.   So what could possibly be wrong with this?

Well, here are the downsides.

- you aren’t really going for the girls you want.

Okay, so at PickupAsia we believe that it’s all about ‘getting the girls YOU want’.  If you are relying on ‘blind dating’, how do you really know that your ‘blind date’ is the kind of girl you want?  For that matter, how do you know that ANY girl is the kind of girl you want?
Well, that’s why you want to qualify the girls you are talking to.

You want to ask her questions that will tell you if she’s the kind of girl you want.  But first, you want to know what it is you want. What kind of woman would make you happy? And no, her just having the physical requirements don’t cut it.

- you aren’t investing much into finding her

We tend to believe more in what we invest our energy in.  If we invest our time in finding the kind of women we want, we are more than likely willing to have her.

Instead, it seems to me that with ‘blind dating’ we don’t care so much about the outcome because we haven’t taken the time and energy to find her and build up the courage to talk to her: someone who at first was a complete stranger.

- We settle more easily

Most of my friends who have been ‘hooked up’ have also settled into these relationships simply because it was, quite figuratively “thrown on their lap”.  Yet, I’ve heard about them lying to their ‘relationships’ and going out, looking for other women….and I wouldn’t be surprised if the women are doing this to.

This is very wrong to both the men and women in these relationships.

- The prettiest women don’t do blind dates.
Think about it.  Do you imagine seeing 이효리 being set up for a blind date? haha, I didn’t think so. I’m sure that there are enough ‘Alpha’ males who are investing in what they want and finding the courage of going up to her and talking to her.
All in all, yeah I’m biased but then again, I’m an idiot too. There are plenty of good things about blind dating that I will never get to enjoy because of my stubborness (which I hope will go away as I continue to learn about this place).

The most important thing, for both men and women, is that in whichever relationship they get in, or are in, they are choosing to be in it, and that’s what it’s all about.

BlueM

www.pickupasia.com

On “natural game” and “naturals”

Guys…

I don’t know about you, but after having tons of PU community beginners and junkmail talk about ‘this-and-that’ natural who pulls 100% of time, and after seeing the community grow from nothing, back in 2001, to a profitable industry now in 2009, I’m going to share my opinion on this.

Don’t delude yourselves.

“naturals” have their own method.

Companies selling ‘natural game’ have their own method.

Anyone trying to tell you different is pulling your chain.  If you don’t believe me ask these “naturals”.  They’ll tell you EXACTLY how they meet girls regularly.

Also, if a  guy who can pull same day lays in 20.5 minutes from bars, ask him if he can open girls during the day in coffee shops.

Also

Naturals have  a tendency to make things sound simpler than they are. “just do it!” “be direct!” are their warcries.

Again if you don’t believe me, just listen to a “natural” and anything and how they are subconsciously good at what they do, and see if they can teach you how to do it.

Don’t believe me?  Try teaching English to a non-native English-speaker. See if they can “just say it” or how simple it is to teach something you’ve learned ‘naturally’ and are trying to give it to others to learn.  Not so easy eh?

While we’re at it.

Usually when you hear stories of how ‘Naturals’ dated women from this place or that place:

There’s no mention of the quality of women.

Or how he meets them.

or the circumstances.

maybe they’re social circle.

maybe they’re the way drunk ones.

maybe they ARE gorgeous models.

or

maybe they’re the ones who are tired of hanging around the bar and not getting picked up

in any case

I’ve been in the field long enough to know when something is

fuckin

urban

legend

don’t fall for it.

don’t believe that you can walk on water.

women are human too.

things happen.

even tiger woods misses shots.

even michael jordan misses shots.

even Mystery loses sets.

I’m taking a piss at this because:

a/  I’m super tired

b/ I’m super tired of hearing about these “naturals” who are Gods and then who lie to the Community and to us by saying that they don’t use routines, when in reality they are and know it.

Wake up Community.  It’s about time people started realizing that ‘pure natural’ is as much BULLSHIT as ‘pure routines’ and many companies’s statement  (who will go as ‘THEnaturalmethod201′  is an oxymoron) is just as hypocritical as Michael Jackson as he’s singing “It don’t matter if yo’ Black or White”.

BlueM

HongKong: The West of the East

Hey guys,

As you’ve prolly figured, I just came back from Hong Kong to give  TV interview for “The Pearl Report” in our Economic China.
I talk about Pickup and how it’s different in Asia and how it’s similar.  I’ll post a link to it once it comes out so that you can watch it.

Upon arriving to the downtown area and dropping my bags, my fellow PickupArtists and I went out and I started getting an idea of what the people are like, and warming up our social skills for the interview. This is when I built my first impression. For those of you who have lived in Asia (obviously), have you ever been to a foreign district or community? In Tokyo you have Roppongi. In Seoul you have Itaewon.

Well, in China you have Hong Kong, and you aint seen nuttin’ yet. This is the only city in Asia where the Asians are a minority (okay, I might be exaggerating a bit). Everyone speaks English. Everyone is much more social than anywhere else Ive been in NorthEast Asia. This is what made this place too Western to be pure Oriental, and too Eastern to be Occidental.

Ladies and Gentlemen, HK is the bastard child of the East and West.

My wingman Ultimate_P takes us to a social bar called Drop. Very Social Circle-ish place. I warm up on a set of hb6 foreign women followed by a 2-set (2 girls) of koreans. After that, Im warmed up. I look for Asian 2-sets but there werent any. the place had loads of guys and gals and it felt like one giant social circle.

I spot a 2set of foreigners (hb6 and hb8)and I game as if I was in the US again. I timebridge/#close (setup a date) the hb8 without the intent of seeing her but more to see if I can at least #close here. My next set was funner. I spot these 2 hb9s and I open with:

me- what is cooler, mandarin or cantonese?

hb9/1 – cantonese!

me- omg! can you guys speak Chinese?

hb9/1 and hb9/2 – yes!

me – but you look African! from Congo!

the girls laugh, and I ask them if there were only 2 of them and they nod, but then amog (Alpha male of the Group)/1Westerner joins in.

I introduce myself, and he shakes my hand but then goes into trying to beta me (lower my social value). He touches my hat, and I tell him not to hit on me like that.

Yeah I was wearing my cowboy hat.  Gotta love it

He asks me where Im from but I interrupt him. At this point, the women are trying to go away, inspite of my touching them and keeping them in place. Then amog/2 comes in. He’s bigger and badder. He goes straight to the girls, and cuts me out as much as possible. With the loudest voice, I grab the girls attention and tell them how hes such an alpha guy and mimick a hardcore alpha dude. They laugh. I spot Ultimate_P and introduce him to the girls, and he helps me out big time. I get their names. Amog/1 and Amog/2Westerner get much more physical, and it gets close to a fight as were escalating the tension. He tells me that shes his girlfriend.

To get him out of our group, I set him up to lower his value.  I ask hb9/1 if the amog was the BF and she nods. I tell them to kiss, and they look at each other and kiss.

Ah well. I eject.

I gamed around 10-15 sets, got into comfort with MAYBE 5 got contact info for 2. KaRyu, my other wingman,  helped me get the contact info of the second set by running solid obstacle game.

Here’s what I concluded from my night out:

- The sets were mostly mixed sets with a few sets of just women, unlike Korea where there are tons of sets with only women.

- The amogs here are more physical at first and work hard to kick you out, and disarming them obviously takes more time than I thought. Take the time to disarm them.

- the women here throw more dominate-me invitations, and you wanna to be more dominant at first, or they will walk all over you.

-So far its like gaming back in the West.

-Everyone here speaks English. Anyways, Im going to be doing some day game and the head out for my interview/sarging session. Ill let you guys know how it goes!

BlueM

the Player vs the PickupArtist: What’s the difference?

Hey guys,

today we’re gonna talk about the difference and how to: player vs pickupartist.

What is a player? What is a pickup artist?  Is there even a difference?
If you don’t think that there’s a difference, that doesn’t stop women from seeing it; whether they are White, Asian or Latina.  The fact is that women around the world know when they are in the presence of a player, or when they are in the presence of a pickupartist.  Do you?

A player (or play-her) is someone who is trying to be an Alpha male. He is using a ‘pickup line’, running routines that aren’t his, and basically saying whatever it takes to get Asians naked.

A pickupartist (PUA) is someone who is now able to present himself as, think like, and act like a genuine Alpha Male.  You know how they say that if you quack like a duck, move like a duck, and fly like a duck, then chances are that you are one.  Well, a Pickup Artist is, for every sense of the word, an Alpha male.

Now, does that mean that if you are not a PUA yet, then you should go ‘natural’ and not learn routines, so as to imitate being an Alpha male? I’m sorry to say it, but “no”.  You see, chances are that since you are looking for help about how to pickup women, you’re not an Alpha male yet. That doesn’t mean that you’re not on your way towards being one, or that you aren’t close to being one. It just means that you need change from who you are, to who you want to be.

Thanks for reading!

Blue Mystery
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