Learn More About Dating Korean Women!

Hey there!

Long-time-no-post!

I’ve started to write about how to meet and date Korean women again. After 4 years of living in Korea I’ve decided to continue sharing.

Take a look at my new site called Korea-Dating-Tips.com

See you soon!

BlueM

BlueM’s Back With a QnA

Hey there!

Thank you for your concern and support when this blog went down.

I took it down because I didn’t think that it was bringing value.

I was wrong.

So…I’ll take your questions and answer them on the blog so that
everyone can benefit (just keep your name anonymous or ask me to make it so.)

That way we can get into what the real problems are.

At your service,

BlueM

Goodbye for now…

Hey everyone,

I’m moving on towards new things in my life and I’ll be closing this blog.

I thank you for reading and if you want to hang out in Seoul feel free to

pm me at BlueMysteryPUA@gmail.com

Good luck everyone.

BlueM

To study Korean or not study Korean?

Hey everyone!
Sorry for not having been on for a while. Anyway, here I go with a question for you…

Let’s say you’re working to achieve something (like having a stress-free lifestyle, or making traveling a part of your life) and let’s say you achieve that something sooner than you thought:

Would you still go through the work to get it? Or would you stop working and would enjoy what you’ve just got?

In my case, I know that many men (and women) learn Korean to attract a Korean partner (or partners).

I know that I’m learning Korean so that I can better communicate with the women I bring into my life, and so that they can share more of their feelings and such with me.

But let’s say that I accidentally met a woman that Korean woman that I can communicate better with, and that with whom I can already share feelings (and more). Would I need to study Korean anymore?

What if I’m in the middle of my semester?

This is an important question because we all need to remember what we’re doing stuff for and for whom we’re doing it. Too many people for get that and end up using money and time for things they don’t need! ㅜㅜ

If my goal was to attract a partner and better speak with her, then learning Korean is a waste of my time in this case.

Granted, if I wanted to simply improve my Korean to make my life here more enjoyable, then I would keep studying (which is my case thankfully ^^).

Keep an eye on what you want, go for it, and know when you’ve got it so that you can enjoy other things in your life.

Anyways, just my humble opinion. What do you think?

Blue

Prettier women are more willing to walk away from unwanted circumstances!

Hey everyone!

So I’ve started meeting prettier women and I’ve noticed something that I has been happening lately -
The prettier the woman is, the more rigid her rules of the relationship are, and the more willing (or entranced?) you’ll be to following them!

When I was dating pretty women, I felt more of a ‘laissez-faire’ kind of attitude. But now that I’m going for really beautiful Korean brunettes, I notice how I need to be sharper and hold stronger frames because they know what they want, and they are more willing to walk away if they don’t get what they want!

So what do you do?

Well, for now this has helped me focus on knowing my own boundaries and what I’m willing to put with, personally.

This is important because, sure, when with a woman it’s all fun and games – but there is some negotiating and power struggling going on at the same time.

Know what you’re willing to deal with, and what you’ll never put up with – and have faith that there are better women for you!

This is maybe why I find interacting with women so much fun.

It’s a constant adventure filled with lust, passion, grief, sorrow, compromise, and maybe even betrayal and deceit.

I would love to hear your opinions on this, as you find yourself meeting prettier and higher quality Korean women.

Or maybe this is something that’s happening all around the world?

Find Out The Truth About Why Korean Women Dress Sexy!

Hey there!
How are you doing?

Good? Well, let’s make your day a little bit better!

Imagine being in a coffee shop, and you’re sipping on a cup of coffee (or tea) and you see a gorgeous Korean woman, walking by. But here’s the thing:

She’s not gorgeous because of her looks perse, but because of how she dresses, and how her sexy black skirt complements her long legs, resting on dark red shoes that would make any (straight) man grow a bulging banana in his pocket.

Her lips are covered in a sensual red lipstick, which, combined with her wavy dark silk hair, makes you drool your coffee back in your cup.

….mmmm……delicious…..right?

Feeling lucky, you decide to strike a conversation with her, and she’s quite keen to talk with you. She giggles, and you both get to know each other…but you notice that something is…well…strange.

In fact, you can’t put your finger on it, but you feel like you’re something’s not quite right. NOT because of her or your intentions…but because you feel like the lady that caught your eye (the impression you get from her appearance) and who you’re interacting with are not just slightly different, but are, in fact TWO different people!

In any case, you decide to keep moving things forward. Let’s say you do get a date with her, and you’ve both reached a point where you both choose to make it sexual – and you find out the truth…

a truth that answers your…gut feeling…she’s a virgin!

Now don’t get me wrong. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin.

What IS wrong is dressing in a very sexual way, and give off a sexual vibe, and THEN end up being someone completely different. In fact, being the opposite of who you are portraying.

So you see a woman like this in a million, you figure that it’s no biggy…but in Korea and when it comes to Korean women…you’re wrong.

DEAD wrong.

In fact, I’d say that two thirds of the Korean women out there dress sensually, AND YET more than half of those women have yet to have had proper sex (from a Westerner’s point of view).

So what’s going on?

Well, from my point of view, and level of experience with Korea, and Korean women , I am theorizing that:

Korean women dress sexually not to express but to escape from themselves!

In Korean culture, women are not allowed to show their sexual side as much, if at all, and most women are doomed to a life of sexual dissatisfaction (just ask around about how “good in bed” Korean boyfriends or hubbies are).

Granted, the culture and upbringing here is designed to make sex not as important as say, family loyalty (which can be argued to be a good thing. It keeps family and Korean society together). Sex for Korean women in general, is taught that it isn’t that important.

But the fact still remains – Korean women are sexually frustrated and want to find a way out (albeit a socially acceptable way)

So the next time you meet a well-dressed Korean women, don’t expect her personality to match the clothing. In fact, one can even argue that the more sexually they dress, the more sexually frustrated they are…and they are okay with that.

Thanks for reading! Sign up for regular updates and you can always check out my ebook that I wrote a year back but that still holds today!

BlueM

Korean women don’t want boyfriends – they want boys!

Hey guys,
Imagine you’re in the Seoul subway, and you see a cute couple…

Then you start noticing some things…small things…that make a big impression.

For one thing you see that the boyfriend is the one carrying the girlfriend’s purse!

Then you notice the bodylanguage, and how the boyfriend tends to lean towards the girlfriend.

Finally you hear them talking, and even though you don’t understand anything, you feel like the boyfriend is trying to get approval, or validation from the girlfriend. It’s like he’s her entertainer!

Granted, maybe I’ve been in Seoul too long and need a break. Maybe it’s because I’m still shocked (and bummed) that a girl I liked cut me out to be with another guy just because he offered to be her boyfriend!

Then again, why would a Korean woman want a boy, and not a man?

It’s because boys are trainable…and men, by definition, are not.

Boys can be trained as lap dogs more easily, to carry her stuff, spend his valuable weekends with her, and much more, in the name of the relationship!

When in reality, she’s got her catch and is now training him to

Be aware of your competition fellas! A bunch of guys who are willing to offer their manhood on a platter for the sake of not being lonely (or something).

How can men compete with that? How can men want to compete with that?

Anyways, these are just my thoughts. And when I say ‘boys’ I’m not talking about only Korean men. I’m talking about “men” in general, who are eagerly willing to give up self-esteem and their values for pussy. In Korea the ratio of these boys to men is higher than I’ve ever seen yet!

Thanks for readin’

BlueM