Anti-English Spectrum

Hey everyone.

For those of you who don’t live in Korea, check out what us foreigners have to deal with.

Pretty sick, huh?

 

 

BlueM

Before getting married, read this!

Hey guys,

Marriage, according to Society, is a great moment filled with joy and years of satisfaction…but they don’t say for whom.
Did you know that once you get married, you are legally bound to a woman who has more power than you in the Court?

I’m not posting this because I’m against marriage. I AM against jumping into marriage innocently, expecting things to go well.

It’s just like having sex without a condom. You’re playing Russian Roulette…

And wait till you have kids…in EITHER case.

anyways,
Check out this website before you do get married, and look at what happens should things go bad.

 

Be prepared and stay safe both legally and physically!

BlueM

 

 

to Get a Table or Not to Get a Table?

Hey everyone,

sorry that I haven’t posting in a while. I came down with the flu, but quickly discovered that it wasn’t SWINE flu –;;

Anyway, I was talking with a cool Gyopo guy that we’ll call Agent_D tonight (thanks for reading my blog!) and he asked about whether or not it was worthwhile to pay for a table in the club.

The first issue is about whether or not it’s in a booking club or not. If it’s in a Booking club, I DEFINITELY recommend getting a table.

It’s expected and quite really, the ONLY way you can pull girls back to talking with you. Get a table and booze!

Now for Western style clubs, getting a table is just another form a Game that you can use in clubs.

I’ll go over the advantages and disadvantages:

ADVANTAGES

- You set yourself apart from most guys.

Most guys just chode around in the club so definitely getting a table will set you apart as having more resources, connections, etc…which is good.

- It’s a readily accessible operations base.

When running Boot Camp game, you have to be more mobile when finding a place to pickup and/or mini-bounce women to such as the bar, or a quiet corner, or even outside (which might or might not be better).

Instead, you can simply move from the table, talk to girls around the table, or simply meet girls in the club, talk about your table and drinks (which most girls will go to and if they don’t let them go and find women who do).

- Chill, enjoy the music and down drinks during part-time.

If you’re planning on staying there for a long time (like 5 hours) it’s good to take a break for a half-hour or something. Usually I take it from 1:00am to 2:00 am when women are more resistant to approaches.

The table is a great place to rest and act as a sanctuary.

and finally

- You don’t need that much skill which a lot of guys pay big bucks for and take the time to learn and earn.

Quite frankly, if you get a table and drinks, you get such a leg up that Game is not really needed. Simply keep getting them drunk, calibrate when they’ve had enough and if they’re up for fucking, and then fuck them (this is more true in Booking clubs than anywhere, as Korean women go there to meet men and have ‘fun’)

DISADVANTAGES

Okay, now we’ll go over the first one that is on EVERYONE’s mind:

- It’s bloody expensive!

Yeah, a table per weekend at a Western-style club can run from W200,000 to a whoppin W1,000,000!

Run those every week to sit a table, listen to music, drink and eat, and it’s gonna add up! Not to mention the frames you’re setting for later! (You’ll end up taking them elsewhere and have to pay for that too! She’s expecting it!)

- It’s an easy crutch to rely on.

Getting tables and drinks saves you on not doing any of the work, kinda like steroids for body builders. You can get addicted because it makes it so easy, yet you’re not really improving yourself, which is a big reason why people take BootCamps, buy books and such.

- The women you attract might not be the women you want.

When rich people complain about always attracting gold-diggers, they really have to look twice at what they’re doing that’s attracting them.

Most rich guys attract women with fancy cars, paying for everything, talking about their high-stakes, and prestigious job.

And now they’re paying for tables! (your competition).

What kind of women will go for guys who pay for tables, drinks, etc..? Yup. Most of them are women who are attracted to guys who will pay for the rest of their sexual or dating relationship!

That’s why, personally, I don’t go for tables but that’s just my opinion. If I’m in a club, I enjoy knowing that I’m relying on my skils, experience, instinct and perhaps even the connections I’ve built in the club (with the guys there and such).

Enjoy the value you get from this post. If you have any specific questions about tables and such, feel free to reply to this topic.

BlueM

Korean women as exchange students vs WBK (Western-Born Koreans)

Koreans who are coming into the Western world as exchange students, FOB (Fresh Off the Boat) immigrants, etc… and Koreans who are 2nd generation Americans, French, Aussies, etc… although they look the same, they’re totally different!

When I interact with Western Koreans, I treat them as if they’re Western women (which they are. They just happen to look Asian and have an Asian background) who don’t know much about their ethnic background. Surprisingly, after interacting with quite a few Korean-Westerners, I noticed not just that they don’t know much about their culture, but that they don’t care!

On the other hand, there are Koreans who are exchange students or just are native Koreans but just moved to the Western world a few months to years ago. Now this group of people is the ideal group to interact with if you know something about Korean culture and language. Just be sure to calibrate yourself when interacting with them.

You see, they have pre-qualified themselves as liking foreigners and Westerners by coming to the West! You just need to interact with them just like you would Korean women (see what I wrote above).

Korean women touch and have sex (and love every minute of it!) as much as Western women do. In Korea the place is a haven of Love motels, Booking clubs, and Condom machines (and sadly, illegal abortion clinics). Women here fuck!

So back to the issue at hand. When they throw those frames and beliefs, they are both testing if you’re going to buy into it, or if you will simply do what a real man would do: dismiss those frames playfully and then question if the woman doesn’t have issues or if she’s into you at all or is using you.

Thanks for reading and I wish you the best of luck at having the relationships YOU want!

BlueM

WARNING: Solid Game is not enough…

Hey there,

I want to run a quick thought by you.

Who here would consider themselves to be ‘good’ with women?

For those of you who are, you understand that meeting women and attracting your ideal type of girl (or girls) is a numbers game.

It’s a numbers game just like finding and attracting your ideal job.  It’s all about realizing that it’s a numbers game and increasing your odds.

How can you increase your odds of finding and having the ideal women in your life?

Well, some in the Pickup Industry will make you believe that it’s all about Game.  Some might even say that it’s ‘just’ about getting good with women and that it’s not a numbers game.  Beware of those people who claim that.

Others in the Pickup Industry will briefly mention how improving other areas in your life will help.  The thing is that they don’t mention about how much leverage those other things are, nor how much leverage each one of those other aspects are.

I’m telling you to that you must build up on other aspects of yourself.

You must be and stay in good shape!

You must be sure that you speak the same language as the country (or at least understand some basics!)

You must groom and smell good.

You must be able to bring new experiences to a woman. Not just through language and game, but also through where you take her and what you guys do together.

If you want the TOP quality women in Korea (and perhaps in the world) you must build on many strengths, and use leverage as much as possible.

Finally, even though you’ve built yourself up, you must market yourself properly. That’s why you want to go out regularly and meet a certain amount of women per week.

If you have any questions, feel free to email me.

 

BlueM

 

Don’t Settle!

Hey guys,
I was reading an article from Men’s Health where the guy said that if ever you are in the dating scene and can’t seem to make things work, simply lower your standards.

This is a BIG mistake! Never compromise your self-esteem for the sake of being with a woman. It will hurt you I promise. Never end up looking the mirror, knowing that you’ve settled into your relationship.

Now that’s different than being in a relationship that you’re settling in WHILE working to make better things happen.

Women do it all the time. In fact, it’s called the ‘Grapevine effect’, where women will swing from one guy (grapevine) and will only let him go once they have a good grip on another grapevine (credit: Kid44)

So what if you’re in the dating scene and can’t seem to make things work? That means that you need to change two things:

- Your approach

- The amount of new women you meet.

Now, if you’re good and have been able to meet women in the past and make things happen, then simply increase (AND BE WILLING TO) increase the amount of women you meet a week.

For me, when I’m not in the relationship situation I want, I meet 30 new women a week. I keep track, and run the law of averages that has worked for me in the past. If the law of averages get better, then that’s cool BUT that won’t change the fact that you’re gonna meet more women.

Remember: GO for what you want. NEVER settle. GO through your process and BELIEVE that it will happen…and it will.

Thanks for reading.

BlueM

Interacting with Korean women compared to Western women

Interacting with Korean women compared to Western women

Interacting with Western women is like playing a “Pin ball” machine.

You see, Western women act like balls of energy that go all over the place. It’s your job to guide the ball towards where you want it both to go, as good as you can.

Western women are much more talkative and restless. They will try to take the conversation topic from you, and are not impressed nearly as much as Korean women when it comes to you being able to talk to them and be social.

It’s your job to guide it back in place (not literally) and yes, all those feminist Western women who have forgotten about their own femininity will disagree with what I’ve just said. If you happen to be a hard-core feminist and wand to discuss my opinion, my email is BlueMystery@PickupAsia.com. Feel free to email me.

On the other hand, Western women are much more open with their sexuality.

They are much more comfortable with being sexual in public, whether it means dressing sexual or simply acting sexual. They are more comfortable with wanting sex and especially open at letting people know about it, more so than Korean women.

Interacting with Korean women is much more like playing golf. They will be comfortable with the feminine energy, and will expect you to lead the interaction. They understand and will agree on the fact that it’s your job to get the ball (the interaction) into the hole.

On the other hand, Korean women are much more conservative in public, and when you interact with them, you must re-calibrate. When I interact with Korean women, I act as if I’m interacting with a little girl: I’m more laid back, add some cuteness and softness in my voice, and talk basic English! (one of the biggest mistakes I see guys make is that they talk to Korean women using the same English that they would use with Westerners. This is why “routines” don’t work and that’s why we don’t teach them at PickupAsia.

I don’t kino them as much, and when I do kino them, I only leave my hand there for a few seconds and not more.

Korean women are also not as open as Western women when it comes to talking about their sexuality. In Korea, they dress very sexy but their attitudes aren’t congruent. Don’t let their clothing fool you! They are much more conservative and you will be expected to lead the interaction towards any sexual and romantic ends you foresee. She will let you know, through her feedback, about whether or not she wants to go there with you as well.

Thanks for reading. If you have any questions, feel free to email me.

BlueM

Who rejects first, Men or Women?

Who do you think reject first, men or women?

No, this isn’t meant to be the latest opinion opener. It’s something that is worth thinking about.

You see, in cultures around the world, we are meant to believe that women are the choosers and are those who reject first.

I say that it’s invalid.  I say that we’re missing a first piece of the puzzle.
Think about it: What do guys even have to do before they can even get rejected? They have to be willing enough to go talk to the woman!

For that to happen, the men have to like the woman enough to go up and talked to her!

We believe that women have sexual choice over men?  That’s true, but only of the men that actually go talk to her!

SO what’s my point?

My point is that men not women reject first!  If we see a woman that doesn’t meet a man’s standards of physical attractiveness, she will be rejected by that man.

Now, the beautiful thing is that an ugly woman for one man might be a beautiful woman for another man.  So women who don’t meet society’s standards of beauty, will meet some men’s standards of beauty, and that might be enough for men to go up and talk to her.
Thanks for reading.

BlueM

The life of John and Tim

Hey guys,

This is in response to an email I got from a student who seemed to be doing all the right things, but still wasn’t getting anywhere.

He bought products, changed his lines, went ‘natural’ but still couldn’t solve the basic problem of having, but most importantly, enjoying a love life.

A lot of how we do comes from the context in which we do things in.
I’m going to share two stories of two different individuals who are living the same lives but get different results.

Let me tell you the story of John.

John was a guy who spent everyday going for a chocolate
that he didn’t care for much, but he liked it.  It was delicious, but it’s “a non-essential luxury”

Now the problem is that to get that chocolate, he had to cross a border to another country, and between where he is,
and the other country is a field of mines that he had to cross.

This was a bummer because any wrong movement would cost him an arm or a leg, which in his mind, wasn’t really worth
the chocolate but he went for it anyway.

Now here’s the interesting part: There were two different kinds of mines.  One type of mines were green colored whereas the
other mines were blue colored.

The green colored mines were put there by the bordering country, just to tell the crossers to watch their step as they proceed, and
to proceed more slowly or quickly.  The blue colored mines….well….no one knew where they came from…until now.

You see when John was sleeping, he would sometimes wake up with durt in his fingernails and he never figured out where it came from, until someone saw him at night, and told him the reality:

the dangerous, deadly and lethal blue mines were being put all over the field by John himself….

This sounds illogical and unreasonable, but our lives are not led by our logic, but by our emotions….

Do you see where you can relate to John?  Don’t we all, sometimes, act like John?

Now here’s another story of Tim.

Tim was a guy who spent his days going for what he genuinely wanted: chocolate..and made no excuses for what he wanted.
For him, eating the chocolate was one of those amazing experiences that life had to offer, and his genuine enjoyment of it allowed him to take the experience of eating chocolate and make it even more wonderful..like an art in itself.  He would also bring some back to share it with people he liked, and would guide them towards enjoying it as well!

Although for him to get the chocolate, he too, had to go through a mine field, but he saw the field in different ways:

- for one thing, each path to the chocolate is different. Some paths have more mines and others have little to no mines…it’s just as if the country wanted you to enjoy the chocolate…and wanted its chocolate to be enjoyed by you…

- for another thing, he understood that putting the blue mines around was a choice that he made or didn’t make, whether consciously or subconsciously.

It was up to him.

If he did place blue mines in his sleep, and realized it, he would do whatever it took to change his thinking and habits so that he didn’t place those mines anymore. So that he could go back at enjoying the chocolate.

Who do you think lives a more satisfying life?  John or Tim?
You see, our perception of reality affects our life, which we already know about.

What we don’t know is how, why and to what extent do our perceptions about certain things affect us.

The best way we can look at how we’re changing or what we’ve changed in, is by reading stories, watching movies, or listening to songs that we’ve read before, and noticing the changes in how we think and react to what we’ve read, seen, or listened to.

Get good at taking a step back and looking at what you’re doing in your life.

Thanks for reading!

BlueM

What YOU can learn from American Beauty

Have you ever watched a movie that you perhaps saw once and didn’t give it much  thought…..but then a few years later, out of the blue, you watch it again and…somehow…you see it in a whole new way, and learn much more.

Has that ever happened to you?

Well, for me I’ve had that while watching American beauty with a girl I’m dating and RedpoleQ.

For one thing, you notice how the main character, Lester Burnham, is stuck in a rut called “life” and even though, to an extent he knows that he needs to change….doesn’t.
And then it happens…

Something that happens to everyone, both men and women.

He gets something that is condoned by the Church and, to some extent, the current societal structure: Lust…

He sees his daughter’s friend and feels something that we all feel regularly in our lives: the feeling of genuinely, and selfishly wanting something.

This, ladies and gentleman, is what I believe to be one of the cores of everything we do.  Lust is the feeling that makes us want to improve ourselves, our job situation, our fashion, our health, and our lives in order for us to attract and keep the best mate possible.

The biggest mistake most people make, is that they take in that feeling, and then like a candle with a small flame being blown at, it gets put out. Instead of the wind of the outside, it’s our own suppressing thoughts and feelings, given to us by society not for the sake of keeping us away from what we want, but rather to keep us safe.
The issue is that in exchange for safety, which in my opinion is an illusion, you take away your life.  This is what Lester realized.  He realized that in the end, you have “nothing to lose”, and he went for what he wanted.  First tho, he did the hardest thing ever.

He admitted to himself what it was that he wanted. He wanted a good sexual experience or relationship, and he worked on himself and his situation to make it happen.
The beauty about his situation was that, once you get into a positive cycle of self-improvement that spawns from something you genuinely want, it that cycle picks up momentum and you bring in more good things into your life.

Another interesting situation was that of his wife Caroline.  She really needed to be fucked by a solid, strong man who has a mission in his life.  Not to mention that he’s financially successful and holds and takes care of himself really well.

Granted, I’m not advocating cheating. I am advocating modeling from the guy “The King” and learning his mannerisms, but not his philosophy of life, which interestingly holds the key to the main issue of the movie: We live lives we don’t want to live, and we hide it with a social mask for the fear of being judged or more.

Anyway, I recommend watching that movie American Beauty again, simply because it’s a masterpiece.  To make it even more meaningful, watch it with someone who you care about and who cares about you.
Thanks,
BlueM