Mission Statement:
Hey guys! I want to start out with the soul purpose of this blog. The purpose of this blog is to raise the social/cultural education of the average foreigner who comes to Korea, and allow them to choose and create intimate relationships with the most amazing women in Korea.
In this blog I will be posting about my adventures and experiments with, understandings and more about Korean women. I trust that this helps you appreciate your life more, as well as the relationships you are going to have with the most amazing Korean women out there!
If you have any questions, do post here and I will help you.
BlueMystery
Hey guys,
I’m sure you’re wondering about why you are reading this blog, what’s in it for you, and also, who the hell is “BlueMystery”?
I felt that way when I first starting reading blogs and posts about how to create relationships with women. I was teenager at the time, and although I was young, there was pain that I kept feeling time and time again, and if you’ve ever had something like that, you can understand how you want to rid yourself of it. Well, that’s what I was looking for.
I kept falling in love, time and time again. With every new “love”, came a horrendous pain that I’m sure a lot of you can relate to. The pain of “falling in love” wasn’t like a pain that came from falling off a tree, or breaking your arm because at least for those pains, you know what caused it, and what to do next time to not feel it. “Falling in love” was a very painful experience for me, and worse: I had no clue how I kept getting it, how I could avoid it in the future, or even how to satisfy it. The reason was that I kept falling in love for women who never reciprocated the feeling completely, nor helped me quench this feeling. At one point, I remember crying myself to sleep for months at a time in order to get this feeling out. Can you relate to some, if not all of the story? I have to admit that it feels good to post about it.
At one point, when I hit rock-bottom, I decided to do something about it. At seventeen years old, I searched for a website that would have some answer as to how to attract the women whom I felt for, if not get rid of this feeling from me. Well, on one fine day, I found it. I won’t go into the details, but it just know that it changed my life. It changed how I viewed things, and much more. It gave me a deep, satisifying sense of hope.
It’s the same kind of hope that a handicapped man would get if he found or knew of something that would give him back that choice to use that part of the body. It gave me a new vision, and a purpose……I don’t want people to blindly experience that pain of “falling in love” or “infatuation” for nothing. I am currently in South Korea and I want foreign men and women to finally have the choice in relationships that they want.
I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, although I’ve lived in America for five years. I’m now in Seoul, Korea and have been here for six months. I intend on attracting and being with the most amazing women in Korea, and for those who wish to follow, share with me as we learn together and appreciate what this country has to offer.
BlueMystery
Hi ,just found your site.Good to see another PUA guy over here .I’m in Busan.
A lot of the western stuff won’t work here I guess…negs and many openers .
Anyway ,if you want ,we can bounce back and forward results and progress .
I’m sure there is a “K-code” in itself to be cracked !
One line I won’t be using is “Do you speak English ?” as that is a fairly easy escape route for the timid ones !!
Hi Busaner,
I agree with you that the Game here is much different. There is a greater emphasis on Social proof, Displaying your Higher value, a nd also disarming the social circle. The woman’s social circle I think, is one THE most important thing to take care of to get what you want.
Suprisingly, I’m finding that Cocky/Funny works well here, especially if you speak Korean (as a foreigner). The book “Making out in Korean” has good lines to learn for Cocky/Funny.
It would be awesome if we could share results and thoughts because it would make the process easier and more fun for the both of us.
Like you Busaner, I know there’s a K-code, and just figuring it out is fun in itself, although frustrating too.
Hehe I know what you mean! When I use that line, I can see the girls getting ready to respond with “no” followed with a backturn. Suprisingly, if you can set them up to say “no”, and then bust them in Korean for not being able to speak English, then it helps and gets a conversation flowing.
Can you contact me directly also by email ?
Blue mystery… i am coming over to Korea in December for 17 days to see this wonderful country. I have a LDR that i want to explore with a Korean chick there too. This blog is going to be awsome!
Sweet Mavor =)
For sure let me know when you get here. I’m going to keep posting some useful information about the scene here to help you avoid some of the pitfalls.
Thanks for the comment about the blog ^^
Btw BM, i think your blog would be better if you placed the links for your “catagories” at the very top of the page.
Thanks man. I’m still learning the whole Blog thing. I’ll see what I can do.
I love korean women but don’t know where to start I used to work for a korean company in NJ did not work out so well I left girls there were mad cute but too old i did not care about age though…korean women are so cute, though be careful they gossip treat them right and your in.
Hey Contro, I feel with about how cute Korean women are. It’s true that they share everything, and have a strong social system where there’s a strong Alpha female, and then the lower ranks. The only societal power it seems, that Korean women geuinely have is that in the social circles.
Hi there,
Nice to see some pua stuff come out of Korea. I am in Japan now, but spent 14 months in Korea. I wish I had learned game while I was there. Korean women per capita are the hottest I’ve seen.I will drop in occasionally and see what’s up as I would like to tap some fine K ass before I leave Asia. It will also be interesting to see how or if K game differs much from J game. Maybe this should be the start of an inter Asia game exchange. I am a ways from returning to Seoul, but I would be interested in winging with a local when I do return, and would offer the same to someone in Korea coming to the Osaka area.
ldb
Hey there.I’m a lifer in Korea. love to chop up game. After being here nearly 10 years, I’m starting to teach the young newbees a thing or two about how to talk to the korean girls,like you are doing. One thing i have been known for, is not caring about the status issue. Just not my style. Think its a good idea? Basically i’m trying to get them to really be themselves and not pretend. Cuz there are some really messed up gals in this country. I’ve dated a few in the early years. now,I am indifferent. often not giving them the time of day. anyway, hope to keep reading some good game
Dang… I’m glad I’m not the only here. I’ve been here for 3 years and just a couple months ago broke up with my longtime g-friend. Now I’m ready to be an aPUA. Contact me bluemystery… I’m in Seoul for University. We’ll tear it up.
~Shake
crap.. you might need this…
mastashake [at] live . com
Hey Lifer,
I think that what you are doing to help the new guys is awesome. Plan on reading more game in Korea. I’ve currently been learning alot from Pros and will be doing a Bootcamp shortly, and will post my experience.
BlueM
g’luck with finding a lasting relationship with a korean woman! Wouldn’t it be nice to get married there too! And make eurasian kids! And live there happily ever after.
just a reminder though, you will stand out but just because you’re Caucasian doesn’t mean korean girls would want to date you.
Hey Tif,
I whole-heartedly agree with you. Personality, status, and Alpha-qualities DO matter as well.
Currently, approximately 1 out of 10 marriages are mixed marriages, and slowly increasing. It’s still taboo to even date a foreigner in the “International” city of Seoul. I’d love to have Eurasian kids tho ^^.
BlueM
hey blueM,
I’m a newbie to the pua scene and i’m intrigued. I’m in Seoul and I’d be interested in picking your brain sometime. Could I buy you a drink sometime? Shoot me an email.
Hey BlueM,
I’m exchange student in Singapore and I’m coming to Japan and Korea this May for traveling. I’m part of the swiss and s’pore lair. AsianRake recommended me to meet you.
Will you be in Seoul around the 20th of May? Maybe you can initiate me to the “Korean” culture. hahaha. I look forward you showing me the hot spots of the Korean capital!
Thanks, Cheers!
Mr.LovaLova
Hey,
Very interesting blog BlueM.
A lot of what you say is spot on, especially the emphasis on the social aspects, even with many of the fob K girls over here in the US.
I’m looking forward to what you talk about in the future! =D
Hello BM,
I’m a korean-french player living in Hongdae for 10 days, just across M2. I’ll be staying in Seoul 3 months, I’ll be happy to meet you and sarge.
Blue,
Ever make it out to Daejeon?
Just got here teaching english and want to learn the KPUAs.
Hey Skyline,
there are some PUAs in Daejeon and I don’t know if you got my email referring to them.
If not and you’re still interested, I can give you their contact info (if they’re okay with it, of course) and you can contact them.
BlueM
hey bluemystery,
any idea what happened to the korea lair? i cant seem to get on it anymore.
toddles
-smiley
Hey Mr. BlueMystery…
I came across your blog because I am going to be moving to Korea soon. I am half American/Half Korean but look full Korean. Although, I have been to Korea many times, I dont really know how the social/dating/going out scene is there, and your blog is very interesting! im not like any of the Korean girls here or there…so you’re actually giving me tips on how to ward off guys, and how the scene is there! LOL, keep posting!
Asiana_Miami
Hey Asiana_Miami!
Thanks for your feedback, I very much appreciate it!
Haha yeah warding off guys is a skill in itself: spare his ego while getting him away from you (‘cauze you get hurt his ego, he’s gonna keep pestering you!)
Keep reading and if you have any questions, feel free to post!
BlueM
Hey BM, are you still currently in Seoul and active?
Cheers
Simon.
Hey Simon,
Sorry I took so long to reply.
I’m still in Seoul and go out from time to time but I’ve
got what I wanted from Game and am moving on.
Feel free to om me if you want to meet and maybe we can work something out.
Bluem
BlueM,
thanks for good stuff. Hope to catch with you soon. What’s your experiences with breaking up with a Korean?
Hey man,
it depends on your situation. In general I just start showing
active disinterest or WAYYY too much interest.
If your Korean woman into you a lot (i.e. she does a lot for you, sets up
meets, etc…) then I’d start showing active disinterest (don’t see her as much, text her the next day as opposed to right away, etc…)
If she’s not that into you then I’d recommend calling her regularly, push
the relationship, etc…or worse comes to worse say “I love you” which I
did and we broke up for sure lol.
My .02 cents.
BlueM
Thanks! It went the way it was supposed. She was the one that initiated the break up and we have successfully (or seem to) have transitioned into at least a cordial acceptance of the other individual.
Awesome man – good for you.
Now don’t be surprised if she texts you on some random night.
BlueM
That’s happened already. But its a good lesson in trying to be firm and respectful. Not that I want to be disrespectful…eh I am just trying to learn. How are things there…?